What’s at Stake When It’s Fake?

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By Carl Weiss
Forgery has been around for as long as civilization has flourished.  No sooner did humans start using chits burnished onto clay tablets to trade goods, when you can be sure some enterprising lad started turning out fakes.  Through the ages people have forged everything from works of art to currency and stock certificates. Some of the forgers went on to become legends.  Many of them went on to prison.  However, what most people do not realize is the effect that forgery has had or could have had on history. Fast forward to the 21st Century! Today a whole new world of forgery is taking place, not by a few, but by billions of unsuspecting internet users. We have fake business websites, fake government websites, Fake blog articles, fake reviews, fake email solicitations, fake products site, fake social media site, heck, what isn’t being faked on the web. To start with, let’s look at fakery throughout the ages to give you a little perspective.

Social Networking Secrets & Best Practices – Part 1 - Two Sides of the Same Coin

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By Hector Cisneros

Have you ever wondered what the relationship is between face to face networking (aka word of mouth marketing) and social media marketing? Have you noticed all the similarities between these seemingly very different marketing venues? I mean, come on, with word of mouth you’re having a one to one meeting at a coffee shop and with social networking you’re posting current events in your industry, right? How could these two very different venues have any similarities at all? Well, in this series I will cover over three dozen similarities that these marketing systems have in common. It is my hope that once you understand the commonality of these venues, you will start to use them synergistically to gain more followers, prospects and long term loyal customers. In part one of this series, I will cover how these two systems are two sides of the same coin. In part two I will cover how both use the “Secret of Giving” and in part three I will explain how both require proactive engagement for your ultimate success.  

The following dozen bullet points cover the best practices and secrets that show the direct overlap of these two venues. Each one provides an explanation of why and how word of mouth and social networking overlap. Some will be readily apparent, others may require a different perspective so read each one a couple of times to see if the light bulb goes on. If you disagree, you will always have a chance at the end to vent your beliefs. So let’s get started.

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(1) Word of mouth marketing and Social Networking have specific rules that need to be followed to be successful. Concepts like “givers gain” (from BNI), tell instead of sell, cultivate instead of hunt.  When it comes to delivering an effective message, consistency, quality, professionalism, follow up, and follow through are all important. See my article the “12 Secrets of Social Media Success” and “How to Win Friends and Influence People in the 21st Century.” The laws of reciprocity are always in play in both venues. Others judge you more by your actions than by what you say, how you say it, or post it. Being congruent is very important.  

(2) All the rules that apply to Word of Mouth Marketing also apply to Social Networking (a.k.a., social media marketing). I wrote a couple of articles worth mentioning here. The first is the “Six Cardinal Rules of Social Media Success” the second was “Seven Secrets of Social Media Magnets”. Also the above two articles from item #1, also reinforces what I’m saying here. They can be found on our blog at “WorkingTheWebtoWin.blogspot.com.

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(3) Social Media is Electronic Word of Mouth - Social Media is an electronic version of Word of Mouth Marketing (a.k.a., social networking). From here on out almost everything I say about face to face networking also applies to electronic social networking. The only real difference is that the digital version of social networking makes things happen faster, goes further and has a bigger and wider impact. As a matter of fact, word of mouth networks and social networks work hand in hand every day. You can always find a word of mouth network spreading its message on a social network and you can find social networks spreading the word about the next networking event. Since business networking (a.k.a., Word of Mouth) works in conjunction with social media, make sure you coordinate your efforts so that both your face to face and your social networking are spreading the same message. Remember, both are viral, but social networking can spread your message faster, farther and over a longer period of time. This is a double-edged sword because it can spread both Good and Bad messages.

(4) No one ever joined a Networking group to be sold to. - They joined to connect with others, build strategic partnerships, to get help, learn and to get referrals from others. They often forget that to get referrals, they need to give referrals. Social networking is the same thing; except the message moves faster and is potentially more viral. People joined to get connected, find useful information, build relationships, and in some instances, to be entertained. Many businesses join because they want to make sales, get referrals and connect with other businesses. No business joined to be sold to either! Networking (face to face or digital) is all about them; not you. They are your referral partners, clients and prospects. Make them happy to earn your loyalty and trust. The same is true of social networks. People joined for their own reasons, which has nothing to do with your reasons.

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(5) Connect with those you're with. - When networking, make sure you connect with the people sitting around you. Ask them to connect with you on social media. Take the time to engage in meaningful conversations. Share with others what you learned and be ready to help them connect with others as well. Take the time to introduce your new connections to people you already know. This will pay big dividends later on, as you will see.

(6) For Networking, Influencers are the Key - If you’re posting to your social nets, provide high quality content that your audience is interested in. Minimize selling directly to your audience. Engage in fun, indirect selling by running contests, getting your best customers to provide testimonials, and engage influencers by helping them with their needs. Share the information that influences provide. If you’re in a face to face meeting help them with what they have going on. It won’t be long before they also come back to help you.

(7) Be proactive; help others first. - In both Word of Mouth and Social Networking, help others first, if you want to be helped. If you are waiting for others to bring you referrals, you’ll have a long wait.  Be proactive and extend a helping hand. It doesn’t mean you have to buy their product or service, however, it does mean that the help you provide them needs to be of “real perceived value” in the eyes of the person being helped.  If you can provide referrals to a member first, it gets the Law of Reciprocity in motion and then it’s just a matter of time before it comes back to you. This is also true for social media. Help others learn the ropes about using social media. Help them get connected to others. Show them where free help videos are etc. They’ll become loyal followers, friends and advocates for your business.

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(8) Trust comes before any business takes place. - To build a strong network that creates referrals, you need to focus on building trust and strong relationships. That is your primary mission when networking, whether it's by word of mouth or social networking. When meeting with people, it’s just as important to learn about them personally, as it is to learn about their business, product or service. Trust and strong relationships are not just based on business-oriented partnerships. As humans, we have emotional factors that are stronger than just logic or financial interests. Learn and remember the personal aspects of your referral partners and customer’s lives, it will bring you both closer together.

(9) Networking is about building relationship not selling products. - A common myth of networking is that your primary goal of the meeting is to sell to the businesses attending the meeting. The reality is you're there to build trust, credibility, forge strong relationships and create strategic partnerships. Once others trust you, they will buy from you if they need your product or service. However, having said that, you also need to make it easy for them to bring you prospects and to buy from you as well. Educating referral partners and prospect is a skill that cannot be brushed aside.

(10) Prepare in advance who you’d like to network with - When attending a networking meeting, it’s a good idea to have already decided who your target market is. I like to target two or three specific categories of businesses when attending any event. For example, my plan may include meeting a restaurant owner, a retailer with two stores, and a multi-location chiropractor’s practice. It makes it much easier to ask for a referral if you know who you’re looking for. Notice I did not mention I was intending to sell to them. My goal is to get introduced to them, engage them, and then set up a second meeting where we can find out if we can mutually benefit each other.

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(11) Being there is half the battle. - If you miss a networking meeting you not only lose referral and opportunities to meet people, you lose top-of-mind awareness and credibility for commitment. If you want to be successful in word of mouth or social networking, you must be present to win. Being there in person is mandatory for word of mouth marketing. Social networking requires a daily commitment to social interaction.  Word of mouth and social networking are active forms of marketing. If your mouth is not presenting at a networking meeting, it’s not delivering your message. If you skip a day of social posting, you fall off the timeline. In essence your message is not running.  

(12) We have two ears and one mouth The full use of these two to one ratios will directly affect your networking success. That’s right “two ears and one mouth”. I first heard Steven Covey say this in the 1980 I believe, yet most act as if the opposite were true.” Listening is very important. Without good listening you will miss referral opportunities, both for giving and receiving them. More importantly, you will miss opportunities to help others – which in turn won’t come back to help you.

In this article I have provided 12 specific secrets and best practices that show how word of mouth marketing and social networking and just two sides of the same marketing coin. The 12 best practices list provides the reader the top reason why these two venues are directly related. In essence, it is my belief that word of mouth marketing and social networking are just analog and digital version of networking. The main difference is the leverage, additional tools and speed that the internet provides. This in turn amplifies the word of mouth marketing message.

That’s my opinion. I look forward to hearing yours.

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This article is a part of a three part series. I recommend reading parts two and three as well to make sure you get the big pictures along with fine detail. If you found this article useful please share it with your friends, family and co-workers. If you have a comment or a different opinion, join the conversation by adding it to the comment section below. I recommend checking out "Six Cardinal Rules of Social Media Success" or "Seven Secrets of Social Media Magnets", “12 Secrets of Social Media Success “ and "How to Win Friends and Influence People in the 21st Century.".  You can also search for other related articles by typing in “word of mouth or social networking” in the search box at the top of this blog.

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Is Online Gambling a Bad Bet?

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By Carl Weiss

Since its inception, the US government has tried to put a stop to online gambling. Yet it has failed to slow, much less stop its spread. With the emergence of paid fantasy football sites, which advertise their games on TV, not to mention New Jersey offering legalized online casino games, is it any wonder that this industry is anything but a bad bet to developers and operators alike? Still, the feds persist in doing everything in their power to put the brakes on one of the most lucrative online industries ever created. In today’s blog we will look at the evolution of the online gambling industry.

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The birth of the Internet and online gambling occurred at nearly the same time.  In 1994, the Caribbean nation of Antigua passed what was called the Free Trade & Processing Act, which provided licenses for online casino operators.   While providing a safe haven for online casinos, the industry did not exactly start with a bang.  In fact, by 1996 there were only 15 sites offering online casino games.  But as other countries began to bet big by legalizing, regulating and taxing Internet casinos, the tide was bound to turn.  As a result, by the end of 1998 there were more than 200 online casinos generating some $830 million in revenue. 

Curiously, none of these were based in the United States.  That’s due to the fact that while other countries were busy legislating online casinos, the US was doing everything it could to stamp them out.  Granted, in the US in the 1990’s there were land-based casinos in two dozen States, plus an assortment of gambling cruises plying the high seas, not to mention horse racing, dog racing and lotteries galore.  Still, the feds decided that the best way to deal with online casinos was simply to make them illegal. 
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That’s not to say that everyone from US based search engines to advertising agencies, magazines, newspapers and online payment portals like PayPal weren’t able to cash in on the online gambling craze.  It also didn’t mean that US citizens weren’t able to play for cash at online casinos.  They could and did in droves.  By 1999, online gambling was so prevalent that it caused the feds to put the first shot across the bows of the online gambling industry when the Internet Gambling Prohibition Act (IGPA) was floated in Congress.  While the bill worked its way through Capitol Hill, it puts casino operators on notice.

A Washington political insider also took notice.  Lobbyist Jack Abramoff was being paid $100,000 per month by a company called eLottery that wanted to sell state lottery tickets online.  The company was founded in 1993, betting that it would be able to create an online business that could be worth billions.  The problem was that no sooner had eLottery inked its first deal with an Idaho Indian tribe to begin selling lottery tickets, when the Justice Department invoked existing gambling laws to shut them down.

To make matters worse, by late 1999, the Senate had passed the IGPA and it was up for a House vote to become law.  If that happened, eLottery would be history.  Arrayed against the online gambling industry was virtually everyone on the religious right, from the Moral Majority to the Christian Coalition.  If Abramoff was going to save the day he was going to have to pull the legislative rabbit out of his hat.  Searching for some leverage in the language of the bill that would allow him to turn the tide, he seized on exceptions in the bill for jai alai and horse racing.  What happened next was Machiavellian politics at its best.

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To quote the Washington Post, “To reach the House conservatives, Abramoff turned to Sheldon, leader of the Orange County, Calif. - based Traditional Values Coalition, a politically potent group that publicly opposed gambling and said it represented 43,000 churches. Abramoff asked eLottery to write a check in June 2000 to Sheldon's Traditional Values Coalition (TVC).  He also routed eLottery money to Ralph Reed, former head of the Christian Coalition, along with a number of other organizations, including Americans for Tax Reform; Traditional Values Coalition, and a Seattle Orthodox Jewish foundation, Toward Tradition.

Abramoff had previously paid Reed's consulting firms to whip up Christian opposition to Indian casinos and a proposed Alabama state lottery that would compete with the gambling business of Abramoff's tribal clients.  Abramoff's plan: argues that the legislation and its exemptions would actually expand legalized gambling.

On July 17, 2000, the Internet Gambling Prohibition Act went down to defeat, to the astonishment of supporters who included many anti-gambling groups and Christian conservatives.”

Of course, when it came to eLottery, it was a case of winning the battle and losing the war, since it never sold another lottery ticket again.  As for the warriors, Abramoff and several other players would eventually be prosecuted for their activities, including Speaker of the House Tom Delay who was indicted on September 28, 2005.  After his indictment, DeLay stepped down from his position as Majority Leader. He was the first congressional leader ever to be indicted. 
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You Can’t Tell the Players without a Scorecard

But the game goes on as they say and by 2001 an estimated 8 million Americans were partaking in
online gambling.  Despite the mostly ruthless legislation the online gaming industry would continue to flourish.  As well as Antigua and a number of other Caribbean nations, other countries that legalized online gambling include Australia, France, and the UK.  In Germany, online gambling is illegal with the exception of Schleswig-Holstein, which is the only German state where operators can apply for an online gaming license.  In some provinces of Canada online gambling is illegal, while in others it is not. In India, where online operators are forbidden, the Central Board of Direct Taxes in 2015 directed online poker players in the country to declare their money on foreign gambling sites.

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The problem with having so many players in the game with different rules is that legal confusion was bound to occur.  In 2004, after being threatened by the Department of Justice, whose broad interpretation of the Federal Wire Act contradicted the US Court of Appeals, the world’s two most popular search engines opted to remove gambling advertising from their sites.  In July 2006, the CEO of BetonSports, a company that is publicly traded on the London Stock Exchange, was detained in Texas while changing planes in route from London to Costa Rica, having been previously charged in a sealed indictment with violations of US federal laws relating to illegal gambling. That same year, Sporting bet chairman Jay Cohen was detained in New York City on a Louisiana warrant while traveling in the US.  Even though the US Appeals court stated that the Wire Act doesn’t apply to non-sports betting, the US Supreme Court refused to hear an appeal of Jay Cohen’s conviction since his company offered sports bets to US citizens.

Later that same year, both the House and Senate upped the ante by passing the Unlawful Internet Gambling Enforcement Act of 2006, which made it illegal for banks or other financial institutions to make transactions with online gambling sites.  In response to the enactment of the UIGEA, a number of online gambling operators opted to suspend real-money gambling with US citizens.  Others, including such sites as PokerStars, Full Tilt Poker, and Bodog vowed to continue serving customers in the US.

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In June 2009, the Department of Justice seized more than $34 million belonging to over 27,000 online poker players. This represented the first time that the DoJ had specifically targeted players as opposed to online gambling operators.  Less than a year later, on November 22, 2010, the New Jersey State Senate became the first state to legalize online gambling.  While the legally licensed operators are allowed to provide the public with online poker, casino games and slots, they were prohibited from accepting online sports bets.  They were also restricted to dealing with players who resided in New Jersey.  Are you confused yet?

If it Looks Like a Duck

Apparently at least three online poker operators were confused.  Especially when they were indicted in 2011 for accepting wagers from US citizens.  Furthermore, the indictment alleges the companies that were indicted sought to evade US law by disguising online gambling payments as purchases of merchandise. On July 31, 2012, two of the three companies indicted settled with the US Attorney for $731 million without any admission of guilt.
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That being said, as of the writing of this blog, there is one chink in the government’s armor that several wily operators are currently exploiting.  I’m talking about fantasy sports where a number of popular operators are cleaning up at present.  To quote a Frontline blog,

“At the time, fantasy sports were a low-key competition in which bettors assembled their own teams, then watched how their players performed over an entire season. The legal exemption for fantasy sports was based on its definition not as gambling but as a game of skill. Today, fantasy sites offer daily contests, million-dollar prizes and bets on individual sports such as golf, mixed martial arts and Nascar races, magnifying the element of chance and making the exemption tougher to defend… The businesses of fantasy sports and online gambling are increasingly intertwined. Operators of online gambling sites have begun investing in fantasy sports, and some of DraftKings’ senior managers came from online gambling companies or were professional poker players. Some of fantasy sports’ most successful players are former poker players, too.”
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Not only have fantasy sports operators like FanDuel and DraftKings become wildly popular and profitable online, you can see their TV spots airing during many popular sporting events, including NFL Football. It’s a wonder that the DoJ hasn’t gotten interested in an online game that according to the Frontline report grossed $43.6 million in entry fees from 7.1 million US players in a single weekend. 

While fantasy football leagues have to date remained off the government’s anti-gambling radar, the recent revelation that a few fantasy sports insiders had used inside information not available to the public to win big cash payouts has drawn the attention of the NY attorney general along with the FBI.  Whether this multibillion dollar industry will stand the test of time is anybody’s guess.  But I for one wouldn’t bet the farm.

In this article I have discussed how online gambling is trying to make its way back into the US internet arena. In particular I cover the ebbs and flow that has brought us to new online gambling in New Jersey and the latest online market – fantasy sports, like FanDuel and DraftKing. This latest foray will test the government’s resolve for squelching online gambling.

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Are Social Networks Becoming Antisocial?

By Carl Weiss

Social networks are nothing new.  They have become the conduits that let us tell the world all about us.  But lately a number of social nets have begun displaying alarmingly antisocial attributes.  Case in point: A new social networking app called Peeple, has been described as a “Yelp” for people, is slated to launch in November.  It will employ a star system that will allow you to rate anyone you know, including ex-spouses, former bosses, your friends and neighbors. 

To some, the specter of being categorized like a side of beef is appalling.  Caitlin Dewey, a reporter for the Washington Post summed up her Peeple angst this way, “Imagine every interaction you’ve ever had suddenly being open to the scrutiny of the Internet public.” That’s a pretty scary thought, if you ask me!
What it boils down to is the question of whether social networking, that bastion of online cordiality is going to transform into a place where all our dirty laundry is going to be aired in public?  I mean, its one thing to have a rating system for businesses.  That concept makes perfect sense, since it is designed to protect consumers from unscrupulous business practices.  But it’s another thing altogether to provide a forum that encourages people to publicly broadcast their grievances.  Let’s be honest, even the business rating model has a few warts that allow underhanded competitors to damage a business owner’s reputation by having their minions post negative reviews.   Since many “business rating nets” make it painfully difficult if not downright impossible to face your accusers, this leaves reputable businesses vulnerable to attack.  Now imagine your personal good name and reputation being besmirched by anonymous pranksters or socially unstable and vengeful people.

Ms. Dewey’s article takes this possibility one step further by pointing out,” To borrow from the technologist and philosopher Jaron Lanier, Peeple is indicative of a sort of technology that values “the information content of the web over individuals; it’s so obsessed with the perceived magic of crowd-sourced data that it fails to see the harm it can do to ordinary people.” It's worth noting that the Peeple App, it's website, Twitter, Facebook and YouTube videos have all been pulled off the Internet after  the tremendous backlash from the general public.

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This laissez faire attitude also doesn’t take into consideration the potential for defamation or even cyber bullying, which has had deleterious and even lethal repercussions. There are a number of infamous cyberbullying cases that revolved around abusive online behavior, including the first one to make national headlines for causing the person being bullied to kill herself. 

In 2006, thirteen year old Megan Meier was befriended on MySpace by a 16-year old named Josh.  The pair continued a strictly online relationship for more than a month that started innocently enough, then grew abusive.  Eventually, Josh wrote Megan that he didn’t want to be friends anymore.  Then he upped the ante by posting a number of hurtful messages which culminated in a post where Josh wrote Megan telling her “The world would be a better place without you.”  The following day Megan hanged herself. Read more about it here.

To make matters worse, it was learned more than a year later that “Josh” wasn’t even a real person.  It turns out that Josh’s MySpace account was created by Megan’s neighbor, Lori Drew.  While receiving national attention, not to mention a federal indictment, Lori Drew was acquitted of all charges by US District Judge George Wu in 2009.

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Since then there have been a number of other prominent cyber bullying and cyberstalking cases circulating online.  These include a 2012 incident involving a seventh grader named Amanda Todd, who began using video chat in order to meet people online.  This unfortunately included one stranger who talked her into baring her breasts on camera.  The stranger then tried to blackmail Amanda.  When she refused to pay, the photo was widely circulated online, including on a bogus Facebook page that used the topless photo as a profile picture.  When her mother had her transferred to another school, the stalker managed to track her down online. The abuse continued until Amanda, like Megan hanged herself.

While sexual harassment has always been a problem, when the abuse goes online, finding a way to stop the abuse can be nearly impossible.  Even worse is the fact that this crime isn’t limited to females or the social nets.  In a blog posted by the Telegraph called Sexual Blackmail on Skype, an all too familiar case of sexual blackmail was exposed when a 17-year old boy was duped into exposing himself on camera, thinking he was chatting with an available young woman.  Almost immediately he started receiving demands for money with the threat of having the racy images circulated to friends and family. 

Even more telling is the paragraph in the blog that reported, “Search the Skype forums and you’ll find numerous reports from individuals who have been caught out by the scam. Their messages are desperate pleas for Skype to save them from their shame, to hunt down the blackmailers and retrieve the images they have captured. Scammers often take the video and images they record and put it on YouTube, marked private to hide it from public view. They then send the link to their mark with a threat to make it public if they aren’t paid. They will include as much information about the victim as possible in the title and description.” Read more here.
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The problem is even more pervasive when people sign up for networks that are adult-oriented.  Users of dating apps like Tindr and Grindr, and photo sharing apps like Snapchat have had intimate photos and even phone numbers posted without consent.  A number of Hollywood starlets have had their smartphones hacked and sexting photos published online.  The problem is that any intimate photos stored on cellphones, tablets or computers can be hacked.

This has spawned an online cottage industry dedicated to assisting those who have literally been caught with their pants down.  One blogpost by techlicious.com entitled, “Your Nude Photos are on the Internet:  Now What?” leads off by relating the 2011 story of Congressman Anthony Weiner’s woes that began when his sexting photos started making the rounds publicly. This eventually led to his stepping down from Congress.  The blog goes on to point out that while most sexting scandals are usually much less public than former Congressman Weiner’s. Many irate ex-spouses, nosy handymen, or curious teenagers have been known to breach the security of many an adult’s electronic devices to then share their torrid photos.  While most of the illicit photos will only be circulated to a few sites, depending upon the persistence of the perpetrator, these images could find their way onto hundreds or even thousands of sites.  

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That being said, if you really don’t want to wind up as the latest online porn star, you need to take precautions to make sure that intimate photos are not easily accessible.  You also need to be cautious about the nets and apps to which you subscribe.  The Washington Post’s Caitlin Dewey subscribed to Cuddlr, which was billed as the “Tinder for cuddling.”  It was also promised to platonically connect consenting adults for safe, fun, nonsexual snuggling.

Says Dewey, “That’s kind of where Cuddlr falls on its face. Call it the app equivalent of the popular Internet axiom, Rule 34: “If it exists, there is porn of it.” It doesn’t matter how much Cuddlr insists the app is for free hugs only — in its seven days in the App Store, it’s already turned to distinctly less PG purposes.” Read more here.

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What it boils down to is that in our app happy, social network sodden World Wide Web, needs a warning label. The term Browser Beware needs to be on the tip of all our tongues, unless the Internet is going to devolve into an online version of a gossip rag where everything goes and nobody is safe. 

Of course it is this very phenomenon that feeds the public’s desire for titillation. It leads this writer to wonder whether the next hot personal review app is going to be named “DateHate,” where you are encouraged to regale the public with the details of blind dates gone bad.  When social networking turns antisocial, the very nature of the genre goes from friendly to downright creepy. 

In this article I have discussed how social networks are moving into a new era where you can rate people anonymously (on a five star scale) or air their dirty laundry without the friends permission. Where this will lead is anybody’s guess. One thing is for sure, some kind of policing must be established to protect individuals from false accusation and slander. My crystal ball reads lawsuit big time.

If you found this article useful please share it with your friends, family and co-workers. If you would like to learn more about this subject, visit the notes page on this blog for the BlogTalkRadio show dated 10/13/15. I recommend checking out "Cyberstalking for Fun & Profit - Is There a Cyberstalker in Your Future?", or "How Do I Hack Thee? Let Me Count the Ways – A Cyberstalking Primer".  You can also search for other related articles by typing in “hacking or social media” in the search box top of this blog.

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Carl Weiss is president of WorkingtheWebtoWin.com a digital marketing agency in Jacksonville, Florida that routinely works with bloggers and other online marketers. 

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